Thats what im saying. She has no real friends. Only hangs out with her family.Fruitysherbet wrote: ↑Sat Aug 29, 2020 8:23 amI just realised that despite her living in NI, I've never seen her post a picture with a non-asian person except Kyle
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Please dont tell me she got another dog...
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Oh, she doesn’t know how to take care of her kids & dogs. Can’t imagine how chaotic her house will be if she gets another dog
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She named Ayla “queen” again in her IG. She & Isaac were waiting in her car for the “queen” to wake up fr a nap. Can’t understand why Ayla is a queen in her eyes. Why doesn’t she name Isaac the “king” too? That’s unfair!
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She must know that she can’t thrive off content alone so keeps this sort of mystery and vague-posting to keep people coming back. She’s all fake positivity and mysterious animosity.Fruitysherbet wrote: ↑Sun Aug 23, 2020 10:18 amRosslyn, it's hard to sum up bubz because she never has big dramas like other people. She's more of a slow burner of mini dramas... I wonder whats happened. Suppose we'll find out in six months time
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There were signs the split must be initiated by Tim.
On his birthday last year (September?) he wanna have a quiet time ALONE. That was weird.
At Christmas time last year he didn’t bring Budz to her favourite Harry Porter show which he once promised to.
Remember early last year he bought a new sports car but driven by himself only, surely not for family purpose.
So even though Budz did not mention the details, I can assure she was dumped by Tim
On his birthday last year (September?) he wanna have a quiet time ALONE. That was weird.
At Christmas time last year he didn’t bring Budz to her favourite Harry Porter show which he once promised to.
Remember early last year he bought a new sports car but driven by himself only, surely not for family purpose.
So even though Budz did not mention the details, I can assure she was dumped by Tim
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I just looked through Bubz' FB page and it makes me really sad that she barely shares any pictures of Isaac. He is so sweet and adorable... Tbh much cuter than his sister, but his mom is clearly skewed in favoritism.
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Asian mothers usually show a gender bias in favour of their sons. However, Budz is doing the opposite. She always names Ayla as a sassy queen, but never names Isaac as her “king”. Poor Isaac! He’s adorable, sensitive & caring.
I bet it could be because during the time baby Isaac & Budz lived in the small apartment in Hong Kong, she was neglected by Tim & needed to stay all the time in the tiny apartment alone to take care of baby Isaac. So she were unhappy during the first few years after baby Isaac was born. This makes her favours Ayla over Isaac.
I bet it could be because during the time baby Isaac & Budz lived in the small apartment in Hong Kong, she was neglected by Tim & needed to stay all the time in the tiny apartment alone to take care of baby Isaac. So she were unhappy during the first few years after baby Isaac was born. This makes her favours Ayla over Isaac.
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Gosh this is so strange that I'm here I stopped following her since pregnant with Ayla. As I think I've "outgrown" of being her fans, used to follow her make up tips when am in college and think she and tim is the hashtag-relationshipgoal. Suddenly think of watching her at YT searching "bubzvlog" and suggested "divorce"
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She’s been losing many subscribers these days. I used to watch her beauty tutorials & they were great. Yet found the “bitterness” inside her soul in the vlogs since her divorce. She needs taking care of two young kids & two dogs all by herself. What if she becomes sick? Who is going to look after them? Luckily she needs no worry about her finance. She doesn’t need to get a job to earn a living. She could even afford a tummy tuck surgery not long ago.
If I were Budz I think I would get a part time job, or apply for some study courses to add myself some values, esp after the two kids are at school for whole day long.
If I were Budz I think I would get a part time job, or apply for some study courses to add myself some values, esp after the two kids are at school for whole day long.
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So Bubz has got lip fillers now, i guess that's it now, plastic surgery has become her norm and that of all her followers. I'm sick of influencers getting lip filler, it has such an affect on their viewers, and this is why half of the young women these days have awful lips from excessive filling
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I saw this too and couldn't help but find it hypocritical given that she's previously made a point of constantly telling her subs they are beautiful as they are, that inner beauty matters more, blah blah... I don't even care that she is having plastic surgery if that's what she wants to do, but to spend years telling everyone inner beauty is THE most important thing and then start having multiple surgeries, lip fillers... kind of ruins that message doesn't itFruitysherbet wrote: ↑Mon Sep 21, 2020 1:43 amSo Bubz has got lip fillers now, i guess that's it now, plastic surgery has become her norm and that of all her followers. I'm sick of influencers getting lip filler, it has such an affect on their viewers, and this is why half of the young women these days have awful lips from excessive filling
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She has been doing so many things on her body to make herself look more attractive. But if I were her I’d rather spend much more time & money on my kids to provide the best teaching esp they are still little.
Not long ago she had the tummy tuck & now gets lips fillers. What’s next?
Do u think she will get addicted to cosmetic surgery?
Not long ago she had the tummy tuck & now gets lips fillers. What’s next?
Do u think she will get addicted to cosmetic surgery?
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She just posted a vlog about 1 mth after the tummy tuck. Her scar looked scary to me. I bet I won’t have the courage to do the surgery. She is definitely insecure after the divorce so wanna seek male attention by doing the plastic surgery.
I follow some beauty vloggers who also have kids. But they would spend time to play or teach their kids while at same time run their beauty channel. But I seldom see Budz takes good care of her kids & dogs. She just let the two kids play w each other but w/o her participation. Just feel poor of the kids esp Isaac
I follow some beauty vloggers who also have kids. But they would spend time to play or teach their kids while at same time run their beauty channel. But I seldom see Budz takes good care of her kids & dogs. She just let the two kids play w each other but w/o her participation. Just feel poor of the kids esp Isaac
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I was also alarmed at the size of the scar.. I guess since she already had a csection then it was less of a problem for her though. I think she'll have another surgery.. Maybe a boob job or something standard.
Also it annoys me that she posts sometimes about having thick thighs like chun-li, but then the other day posted that she was wearing children's age 11-12 year old trousers. I find this pretty hurtful to my self image tbh. If she thinks she's got massive thighs but is wearing children's trousers, i can't imagine what she'd think of my UK size 14 legs..
Also it annoys me that she posts sometimes about having thick thighs like chun-li, but then the other day posted that she was wearing children's age 11-12 year old trousers. I find this pretty hurtful to my self image tbh. If she thinks she's got massive thighs but is wearing children's trousers, i can't imagine what she'd think of my UK size 14 legs..
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I heard that ppl would easily fall into the trap of plastic surgeries. After the first one was smooth & over, one would think over which part in the body can be fixed.
I just wonder what if sth goes wrong during the surgeries, who could look after the kids? She should learn to become a responsible mother!
I just wonder what if sth goes wrong during the surgeries, who could look after the kids? She should learn to become a responsible mother!
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Wow this just shows how responsible Isaac feels. He should not have the weight of parenting his sister on his shoulders!! This makes me so mad and upset
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Me too. Budz said Ayla pushed Isaac away. Wow, this sassy queen is always rude to his brother! Budz should force Ayla to apologise IMMEDIATELY to Isaac. I can assure that after Ayla goes to school she may bully her classmates.
I read an article which says “Bullying is especially true among mean girls who often thrive on power and control.”
Sigh! A 3-yr-old kid should be lovely & sweet. But I only see Ayla being sassy, rude & impolite to others.
I read an article which says “Bullying is especially true among mean girls who often thrive on power and control.”
Sigh! A 3-yr-old kid should be lovely & sweet. But I only see Ayla being sassy, rude & impolite to others.
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... this seems like a staged photo/post. Who, in the middle of comforting her son, would have the time or heart to be like "wait a minute, Isaac, mom needs to position the camera and capture this for Instagram"?? Sheesh.
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Haha, u’re right. Nobody else in the house could set the camera to film the moment she comforted Isaac. Ayla owes Isaac an immediate apology. This sassy queen should be pleased to have a nice brother who always takes care of her & acts the role of a mother. Unfortunately she takes this for granted!!!