heyitsheidi wrote:QueenPeen69 wrote: ↑Fri Oct 11, 2019 10:44 pm
yeah, i don’t know about the rest of you moms here, but this shit doesn’t fly with me. i know the shady shit i did while being in the same house as my parents, let alone letting your 14 year old fly and clearly be sleeping in the same room as her 17/18 year old boyfriend.
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hh...hhow is this even okay? and I bet all of her stans are thinking that they are "relationship goals" when this is just inappropriate. If she was his age (17/18), then I guess it would be fine but she is a literal child. Honestly, I still don't understand why he wants to be with someone so much younger than him. Like, as a senior in high school, I wouldn't want to be dating a freshman? It's weird and too much. Even if she was 16 this would still be a bit much but 14?! I wonder what his parents think of this tbh. Even them going to Cabo sleeping in different rooms was inappropriate. This relationship is being treated like she's in college when in reality 14 is the age for "puppy love."
yeah, something there isn’t right. and i’m not trying to judge or bash anyone’s parenting here, but c’mon, katie isn’t dumb and she knows what it’s like to be a vulnerable and impressionable girl.
i speak from current experience on parenting a 14 year old girl myself who of course has senior boys interested in her, but i helicopter over the whole situation. and that might seem extreme to most but i’ve also been the freshman girl dating senior boys and we all know what they’re after. she isn’t allowed to have him on any social media aside from instagram, which i have access to. she’s not allowed to ride in his car or hang out with him outside of groups/school sanctioned functions. they’re in fact going to homecoming together, but i’ve also set ground rules that they can be friends and that’s the extent. i’m the type of mom who sees things going too fast or too maturely and put a halt to things. regardless of that means, deleting the boy on social media or taking her phone away at night to restrict contact. and i know that doesn’t solve everything and at some point she’ll try to rebel. but i’m trying to prevent situations i went through myself that left me pretty emotionally fucked.
and no matter how charming and sweet a boy portrays themselves, they all have the same motive. katie secluding annie in the maids quarter of the house gave her free range for god knows what. even going on a trip to cabo with asher. everyone acts like annie is so innocent but she’s also a very impressionable and easily influenced girl and thats any girl that’s still in their teenage years.
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