NatureLover wrote:Heather annoys me so much! She really doesn’t seem to like her own daughter. I notice how much she puts her down. In a recent vlog she called her dumb, in another vlog she told her that she couldn’t do a simple art project with a string because she’s not an artist. She puts her down so much and now Emma is doing the same thing to herself. Ellie does it too, she points out all Emma’s mistakes just like the parents do. I’m so sensitive to Emma I guess because she reminds me of myself in so many ways.
Today’s vlog pissed me off! Heather seems to do anything for views even if it means humiliating her daughter in public under the guise of being real and showing how normal they are. Instead is putting that out there and asking what’s wrong with her kids she needs to look at herself and ask where is she possibly going wrong. A young girl wouldn’t look for love on the internet or fall so deeply for a stranger if she felt loved and seen at home. Today she mentioned that she hopes she’s raising them right but she will find out when they are 21 and move out when signs are already showing that she’s doing something wrong and need to make adjustments... but of course she won’t do that because it means she’ll have to look at herself and her own flaws and mistakes instead of focusing on those of her children. I hurt for the girls, especially Emma and I can’t wait until she’s old enough to escape. I hope someday she sees that her mother is her biggest problem and it’s not herself.
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Regarding the statement that she hopes she is raising them right/she will find out when they turn 21 and move out:
1) Does she not realize that she CAN stop, analyze her parenting tactics, and see for herself whether she finds them to be acceptable or not. She does not have to wait until the girls turn 21.
2) Why is she implying that the girls will be moved out at 21? Assuming they go away to college, they will graduate around 22 and in this day and age, it is quite difficult to live on your own the first year/few years post-college.
I was just on vacation in April in North Carolina with four other adults and six kids. We knew that it was going to rain for a few days while we were there and we packed multiple board games, card games, and movies. I never heard anyone say that they were bored once. I swear it's like she would rather complain than do something to fix the situation.
