hollaatmegurl wrote:Before I started having sex I was worried about the nerves, too. A million thoughts were always running through my head and I was nervous and anxious as hell, but when it actually happens, it's not so bad. Just let loose and ride dat dick. My first time I was kinda nervous but like when it comes down to it and you're all naked and your genitals are all a-quiver, and you're in the moment then the nerves mostly just fall away.Angie V wrote:way ahead of you. still, reading isn't the same as actually doing. i'm more worried about the nerves than anything else.
If you want to have sex with a lot of guys, go for it. Honestly, I don't know why sex is made so taboo. It's natural. Casual sex isn't for everyone, but if someone wants it, then it's that person's choice (WITH PROTECTION of course. You can never have too much protection. And being smart about it. Diseases are everywhere and having sex with total strangers probably isn't the best thing to do.) Just like if someone wants to wait until marriage, it's that person's choice then, too. It's whatever you feel comfortable with.
And, not every guy wants a girl who's inexperienced, but there are PLENTY of guys who don't mind if a girl is a virgin. Better to be up front about it though. I mean, not like, "Hi my name is blahblahblah I'm a virgin", but if you meet someone and things progress to ~that level~, just let 'em know.
@RainbowConnection - glad everything went well, it gets better with time too
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i guess i just feel like i'll probably get blown off (no pun intended) if i tell the guy i am a virgin (not that i wouldn't tell them, but when i do) because i hear that a lot of guys don't want the "pressure" of being someone's first (unless they're really emotionally involved i guess).
i don't want to sleep with a lot of guys but i don't want to wait til marriage. i guess what i was trying to say is that i'd want to do it with someone who i don't really see myself being with before i have sex with someone i do see myself being with because i feel like i want to be a bit more experienced to make the experience with the guy better. in some twisted way, it makes sense in my head.